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Have you ever wondered what makes women tick? Well, I can tell you wholeheartedly that the reasons why women are attracted to men may be different than what you may think.

So what do you need to know to make women swoon over you as soon as you meet them?

I can't say this enough: the top two attractants for women are self-confidence and independence. Women are instantly attracted to men who are secure in themselves.

Added benefits include a good job and a secure lifestyle. I'm not saying that you need to be the CEO of your company to attract a woman. But you do need to be content in your work and demonstrate that you are living a lifestyle that is acceptable to you and that you find rewarding, one that gets you the things that you want in life and makes you happy at the same time.

You see, women are attracted to men who feel good about themselves because these men are typically less needy than ones who don't have high self-esteem.
Plus, they feel good about themselves, and that can make a woman feel good about herself as well. When you are around positive people they make you feel good.

But what if two men are vying for the eye of a woman? One of them is a self-confident and humorous man who is average-looking. The other one is confident and shy but extremely good-looking. Which man do you think that she'll choose?

Well, it all depends on the woman's taste and temperament!

Surprised? See, women also are naturally attracted to a certain type of man, and that will vary from woman to woman. Some women love men with dark, brooding eyes and hairy chins, while others prefer blondes who are tall and thin. Still others prefer short, chubby, bald guys. Some like them old and some like them young. So remember that no matter what your own individual look is, there is a woman out there for you.

So accentuate your most positive attributes and go from there. If you have a great smile, then by all means let those pearly whites shine. If you have a great build, then wear those muscle-man shirts with pride. If you have a great butt, then wear nice jeans that show it off. You don't have to be a bodybuilder or a superstar to attract women, but you will have features that others notice. It may be your eyes, or your tan, or the color of your hair.

I want you to listen to what people tell you. Your friends or past girlfriends must have pointed out things at times. Try and think what they are, or ask a friend. Simply accentuate what you are most proud of at all times. You never know when someone may be watching. I really mean that!

But above all, remember: most women agree that self-confidence and self-esteem are big turn-ons. Try not to get this confused with arrogance. This will have quite the opposite effect.

Therefore, your mission should be to find a woman who is attracted to your special characteristic, and then win her over with your confidence and self-esteem. By doing this, you can be assured that she will not only be attracted to you but she will also want to get to know you better.

Keep in mind, however, that miracles don't often happen. No matter how confident you are, if you meet a woman who is ONLY into blonde surfer dudes, and you are short, pudgy and bald, no matter how self-confident and charming you are you may just not be her type.

But that doesn't mean you don't have a chance with the beautiful lady sitting right next to her. She may be into short bald guys.

Either way, you simply have to learn to be happy with your own physical attributes and to know what it is about you that makes you special. If you aren't happy within yourself, you will never be able to project that to other people, especially women.

Be your own biggest fan. You can't change who you are, so I would encourage you to be accept yourself for who you are. Once you do, I promise you will attract others to you.

The key to attracting others is self-acceptance. My friend Sam used to be really skinny as a child, and used to hate the way he was. But once he realized he was never going to be as muscular as Arnold Schwarzenegger, he accepted it and moved on, accentuating his best features and accepting himself for who he is.

All of a sudden things started to happen for him. His self-acceptance and confidence drew other people to him and he's never looked back! I've seen a lot of guys do this. You can do it too, and I can testify that it really works!

So you're not sure if a woman is attracted to you? If you know a particular woman well, you probably know some of the men she has dated in the past. By evaluating her past dating behaviors, you might be able to pick up on patterns and get a feel for what she is looking for.

Before you transform into her old boyfriend though, keep in mind that people's patterns and types can change.

For instance, a woman who was previously attracted to bad boys might change her mind once she goes to college and starts working in the real world. Maybe she will realize that bad boys are bad news, as they are often unemployed and moochers. Therefore, she may be looking for something different.

If you haven't known her long enough to do this, you can still pay attention to the type of men she is sending out signals to. If one of them is you, chances are she finds you attractive.

If she's with a group of women, you might be able to strike up a conversation with them. Jokingly ask if you might have a chance. You never know—one just might pipe up and say, “Oh, you're EXACTLY her type!" Then you know you're in!!!

Once you've found someone, remember that proper grooming goes a long way in a relationship. Don't let things go just as you're getting to know someone. No one wants to go out with someone who doesn't take care of himself, and no one is going to be immediately attracted to a slob (with the exception of the occasional woman who is into slobs).

So attraction is a very important thing in relationships. Women are attracted to self-confident and well-groomed men who know how to accentuate their positive qualities and aren't afraid to show what they've got.

By doing the things I have mentioned above, you can be assured that you'll not only get a woman's attention, but you'll also keep it.


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