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The Mature Woman's Guide to Dating

Most single mature women agree that finding the right person to date is one of the hardest parts of dating. Although mature women are gathering up their courage and making the first move and asking the man out, they still agree it's the anticipation of meeting new people and hoping that there's a connection that still gives some women their nervous jitters. However, now that you've swallowed your fears and got his phone number and asked him out…what now? How can you make a good first impression so that you have the chance of him asking you out for a second date?

With the help of, here are some ways to make that first date an unforgettable event for the both of you.

  1. Be Inventive: Do something that allows you to talk, but not be focused completely on each other, just in case the inevitable uncomfortable silence comes up from time to time. A good place to go on a first date is an art exhibition, and then dinner. This will give the both of you comfortable and easy conversation over dinner.
  2. Take a nice bubble bath, or a least a nice long shower: Personal hygiene is essential to attraction. Just don't over do it with too much perfume, which is a real turn off.
  3. Be Realistic: Unreasonably high expectations will not do you any favors. Your goal is to have fun and get to know him better. Keep your feet firmly on the ground and you'll have a better chance at that second date.
  4. To Thine Own Self Be True: Focus on being you, and not someone you think he wants you to be. If your date isn't given the opportunity to click with the real you, then what's the point of going on?
  5. Don't Be Too Flashy: Don't go overboard with a five-course meal at the best restaurant in town or by hiring a private caterer to make the meal. He may think you have loads of money and that may either intimidate him, or make him want you to take care of him. Either way, he would be dating you for the wrong reasons.
  6. Take An Interest: People want to be someone that makes them feel good. Don't let nerves distract you from showing interest in the conversation or laughing at his jokes.
  7. Avoid, Avoid, Avoid! Never, Never, discuss exe's on the first date, unless you don't want a second date.
  8. Patience is a Virtue: An unwelcome move can ruin the greatest of dates. Bide your time. You may have come a long way baby, and he's flattered that you asked him out, but don't get too pushy or aggressive. Give him a chance to make a move.
  9. Pay for Dinner: Make sure he knows right away this is your dime.
  10. Calling Etiquette: Most men say they wait a week before calling after a first date. You don't have to wait that long, give it about three days.

So, now you may have some idea of what to do and what not to do on your first date. The main thing is to have fun, and keep your expectations at an even keel. This may not be the person you want to spend the rest of your life with, but there is nothing wrong with going out and having a bit of fun in the meantime. Many older women who were married for a number of years are not even near looking for a man to settle down with. Many find a whole new world has opened up for them and they are enjoying a man-free life just fine, thank you. However, it doesn't hurt for the man-free woman to go out on a date every once in a while, just to keep things interesting. Single mature women are going more places and doing more things than their own mother's ever dreamed they could. So enjoy the many pleasures life can bring to you at this time in your life. You never know what may be waiting for you around the next corner.


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